Dearest Debbie, Ash and Jay I am so so sorry to hear of Graham’s passing. I can’t believe I’m am not going to hear his cheery ‘Hello Les’ again. I cannot imagine the grief you are feeling now but I have always admired and respected your closeness as a family unit and I know you will pull together to get through these dark days until you see some sunshine once again. Ash and Jay, please envelop your Mum with your love and support - she needs you both right now and I know you well enough to know you will do exactly that. I cannot make it better for you - if only could - but know that I am thinking of you every day. I know it is hard to imagine now but one day you will feel happiness again and Graham would want that - he would not want you to be miserable - he loved you too much for that. For the moment though happiness will seem far away but have faith that eventually in your own time it will come. Try and be gentle on yourself and keep well in these trying times. I look forward to hearing from you as and when you feel able. I can wait but perhaps one of you could let me know of the arrangements so we can send some flowers. Alex was also very sad to hear the news and sends his love and best wishes to you all. Lots of love Lesley and Gary